Two Hands
‘God gave us two hands - one each to hold a child’, that was one client’s rationale for choosing to only have 2 children.
Another friend was walking along the beach in Sri Lanka with her husband and her three kids. She had one hand each holding on to one child and her husband had their toddler. When the tsunami hit, she woke up after regaining consciousness only to find 2 of her kids, and they never found the one who was swept away by the waves.
Don’t tell me how many kids you are planning to have. Tell me that you will always hold them with your hands in your heart whilst you can.